“Nothing is perfect. Life is messy. Relationships are complex. Outcomes are uncertain. People are irrational.” Hugh Mackay:

Our family is the most important thing in our lives and there are no questions about it. We have to take care of our families no matter what. Nevertheless, when the time of starting your own family comes, it is time to leave the nest and focus more on your partner.

Preserving a healthy relationship nowadays is not easy. There are many reasons why a relationship does not work out, but in this article, we are going to talk about one particularly.

This will maybe bother people and they may not like the way it sounds, but sooner or later everyone has to accept the facts.

Many people make a mistake by thinking that their partner will stay at the second place and you still pace more focus on your relatives.

The point is that after some time as the relations with your partner becomes more mature, you will need to begin to put him/her in a first place.

This is a common issue when relationships move to the next level and now you need to create your own family.

We have all seen many marriages destroyed.

You have a family to be very happy, share the projects to grow together, so that your children have a role model and to also know that a home is built from their own decisions.

Not understanding what the word “family” means is just like wanting to place the couple in the category of “relative” and that is where the problems begin and bad relationship in marriage.

Now when you are together, the opinion of your partner should be after yours.

You should take care of him/her before it becomes an ex.

You will never have ex-father or ex-sister, but when it comes to your partner, it is up to you.

You will need to prioritize your partner before your family and you will have more possibilities that you have lasting and happy relationship.

 

 

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